Does this Plug you in or Piss you off?

My whole life I’ve been taught this was wrong but deep down in my Soul of Souls I know that it’s not.

“The Art of Self Centered Service”

Well if you were raised anything like me it sounds like I’m trying to say I only care about myself and could never be depended on to care for my fellow man.  But anyone who knows me will tell you that can’t be farther from the truth.

In the Health Care Industry, that has been the largest gateway to my giving nature since I was a teenager, we’re taught to be of  “client centered” service at all times.

Of Course we are, Right? The people we serve are medically, emotionally or physically fragile and depend on us to provide for their comfort and dignity and in many cases, they depend on us to keep them alive. Of course our approach to the work we do is “Client Centered”.

Self Centered or Client Centered? What you need to know is that the two are not mutually exclusive. You don’t have to choose one or the other.  In fact, each one depends on the other for their own growth and development.

Health Care is, by its very nature, a means of being of service.  Many of us choose this business to feed our spirits. When our clients are happy and well served is when we feel the most joy and satisfaction. Really, nobody ever needed to tell me to care about the needs of my clients.  That’s what I’m here, on this earth, to do.

But what if the key to doing exactly that … in the Highest way possible … depended on first being able to practice and master The Art of Self Centered Service?

What if those of us who chose the Health Care Industry with clear Intention and Certainty that this is our calling … What if we discovered that by  learning to practice and master The Art of Self Centered Service was the Key to true “Client Centered” delivery of Excellence in Service? 

When we are exhausted, taken advantage of, injured, our bodies over used and abused all while being pushed to do more … all while being told we’re slacking off or not good enough to mask our injuries and keep giving and giving … That is not being of Service that is being in Servitude. 

The negative impact servitude has on the very clients you want to serve is unacceptable. They deserve to receive your gift of service from a place of genuine compassion.  Being run down and exhausted creates a space of your body and your “being” struggling for its own survival.

The Art of Self Centered Service is the Key to true “Client Centered” delivery of Excellence in Service? 

When you are happy, fullfilled and physically well taken care of does your work and attitude get worse or better?

When you stop at the deli on your way to work and the woman in line behind you tells the person at the register to put your order on her bill as a way of thanking you for the service you provide in the world … Does your work and attitude get worse or better?

I think it’s time to refill your glass.  What do ya think?

Think about it and leave a comment below.




BEcoming Who You Are


Situations I Don’t Want Bring Clarity about Those I Do Want…

Whenever you know what you do not want, you always discover more clearly what you do want.  So whenever you gain awareness of another person’s undesirable situation or behavior, pay CLOSER attention to the idea of expansion that has just been inspired by that interaction.

And as you learn to do that, not only will you be of increasing value to others, but you will see how your relatationships with others add immeasurably to your own path of BEcoming.


Getting Into the Vortex


My Thoughts Join a Powerful Swirling Vortex of Attraction …

In the same way that the Law of Attraction is responding to the thoughts, words, and actions that you are offering here in your physical reality, the Law of Attraction is always responding powerfully to your Vibrational Reality.

When the Law of Attraction, the Universal manager of all Vibrations, responds to the clarity of Vibration offered by your expanding Inner Being, the results is a powerful swirling Vortex of Attraction.

from the Teachings of Abraham with Esther and Jerry Hicks

The True Key to Having it All

The key to truly serving the ones who need you most; the ones you know you’ve been called on by the universe to help make it through their hardest times and to help celebrate through their Joyous times is having the Prosperity available to Support your Efforts with Grace and Ease.

The Key to your prosperity is Passion

The key to your Passion is Purpose

The key to your Purpose is Joy

When you let yourself feel joy all the way down to your toes and you get to the end of your work day and have no idea where all the time has gone – that’s when you know you’ve tapped into Your True Purpose.

You’ve heard me say “Let Your Passion Create Your Prosperity” because passion is such a magnificent marker for the fact that you’re tapping into Your True Purpose.

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What’s your Favorite Quote?  These are great to refer to when we want to feel empowered or warm and fuzzy.  You Choose  🙂

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Harnessing the Power of the Law of Attraction

 All people are surrounded by a thought atmosphere. . . Through this force we’re either drawing in or forcing back. Like draws in like and…we draw in exactly what we are in mind. (or as My Grama Shea used to say “Water seeks its own level”)

The law of attraction is the principle by which you draw into your conscious mind and experience that which is in vibrational alignment with your awareness; your thoughts, feelings, opinions and attitudes, whether you’re mindful of them or not.

This is why the starting point on the road to successfully and deliberately manifesting your desires is to become aware of the thoughts and feelings that are producing your experience and to take responsibility for your reality.

 Accepting responsibility for your life without judgment is both empowering and liberating. When you understand that you are source not subject of your existence, you are able to modify it. 

Desire breathes life into your dreams and fuels your imagination and anticipation. As you connect with your desire; your imagination and all the favorable thoughts and beliefs about your goal come to life. To connect with the desire you’ve got for your goal, merely ask yourself “Why do I wish for this?” As you answer the whys, your passions and emotions flurry and your imagination streams.

When envisioning your desire, engage your imagination by using all of your senses. Imagine not only the visualizations, but also the sounds, textures, smells and tastes of your dreams coming true.  Even more significantly, think of the feelings of the outcome you look for as these contain the strongest magnetic force for drawing your desires into your awareness. How you feel about what you imagine will decide whether you’ll successfully draw it in to your conscious experience or not. 

To successfully draw in your hopes it’s crucial that your feelings are congruent with them. If, for instance, you desire a happy loving relationship but bear negative feelings about the opposite sex, love, or yourself for that matter, you will produce counter results.

Feed your ambitions not your concerns. Feed your successes not your failures. Your ideas, beliefs and the focus with which you utilize them are directional. They’re heading somewhere. If they feel good, so will be your destination. 

Your world is a manifestation and extension of the entirety of your mind, a holograph of your awareness. It’s also a platform and gateway with which the universe can convey with you via signs, signals and whispers in your daily life –  that serve as arrows and prods to guide and aid you on your way.

Recognize and be thankful for the love and goodness in your world and in your gratitude you’ll open to receive it at an entirely new level in addition to inviting more of the same into your life. As you open to obtain the gifts and bounty that are already in your life, you will become more open to take in new gifts, love and successes in your life. 

Denise Toffey of

Napoleon Hill

When riches begin to come they come so quickly and in such great abundance that one wonders where they’ve been during all those lean years.                                                         Napoleon Hill
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